Battle of Wits: Onome And Andy Fights Dirty Over Husband Cutting His WIfe With Plier (Photos)

Few days ago, news broke of a newly wed couple who got into a fight so bad that a plier was used to mutilate the ear of the wife. Ever since, Opinions and counter opinions has flooded the cyberspace on who was at fault. At a point it nearly became a gender warfare.

What could have gone wrong with a couple who couldnt see any fault in each other 11 months ago? Could any amount of provocation warrant the assault? Did the husband act in self defense?


To enlighten us on these issues, Blog readers Onome and Andy battled it out in an epic outburst of parallel opinions.

Onome Fumes:

Men of these days are evil. There can never be any justification for violence. Only an animal would raise his hand on a woman let alone his wife.... No matter the circumstances u shouldn't raise your filthy hands on ur woman... The guy should be locked up in a zoo
GOD hates divorce! Really? Does GOD love men who batter their wives to a pulp? Does He approve of people being beaten to death while the children watch traumatised? Does ‘until death do us part’ mean that your partner has the authority to kill you?!

Biko, I beg, if some man (or woman) is beating you – Run! Flee! Disappear! Vanish like a Ninja! Get out of there to save your life, your dignity, your self-respect and your sanity! He will NOT change! Please. Hear. Word – He will NOT change! Batterers do NOT change. Not without years of psychological counselling and self-introspection. And despite all that, most still continue battering their victims!

Ignore your pastor and Imam – that same religious leader will officiate at your funeral, give a moving eulogy about your short life, and call your batterer ‘a good husband’. Stop praying and fasting and wishing and hoping! Gather your broken ribs, shattered jaw, black eyes,twisted arm, bruised torso, yanked-out hair, broken- down self while you can still walk or crawl out of there, and get yourself out.

You are battered. You are bruised. You are crushed. Your dignity is gone. He has ground your self-worth under foot. You believe you are
useless, ugly, lazy, fat, stupid, worthless, etc etc – all the names he/she regularly calls you. The harsh words have battered you even worse than the hard fists.

Yes, you feel like you still love him. You desperately hope he will change. You cling to memories of the good days/weeks/months when he doesn’t turn you into his punching bag and think if only you can change, then he will stop battering you. He has told you the abuse is your fault and now you believe him

You are NOT useless. You are NOT worthless. You are NOT ugly. You are NOT stupid. You are NOT undesirable. You are beautiful, smart, valuable, and greatly loved by the ones who know your worth. Do not let another person’s warped opinions shape your self-image. Do not let their words hijack your brains and emotions.

Leave today. Not tomorrow. Not the day after.
 
You are worth it. Your life is worth it. I would always say woman if ur husband is a wife beater and you still want to remain as in for better for worse things,just kip touts around such that it would only be a matter of a phone call ,and dey beat him up at he junction. in this way God is directly fighting your battle. if the man is having psychiatric problem I guess he can check in to a mental facility from there. 

Even if he saw her in bed with another man the wise thing to do is to throw her out of his house not to chop her up like a barbarian taking into consideration that she has a 3 month old baby that cannot have been the case so your stand is rubbish. No matter what she has done.. No matter what led to this.. No woman deserves to be treated in such an inhumane manner. If a woman is unfaithful, divorce her. It's not your right to unleash any form of horror on her. She is not your property. She is a human being!!

Mental evaluation has become absolutely necessary before marriage because men of these days are mere monsters

People asking stupid questions and trying to justify a barbaric act I have some questions also for you; Haven't you heard or seen a cheating husband who always raises his hand anytime the wife questions his philanderings? Haven't heard or seen a man who needs no excuse to lash out brutally on a woman just because he enjoys it?
 
We keep asking silly and unwarranted questions when we aren't on the receiving side! People should learn to keep quiet and stop spreading their stupidity around all in the name of making contrary comments!! So if she had died we will go to her grave to hear her own side of the story! Any idiot who trys this nonsense with me will regret the day he asked me "Will you marry me"? Not all women tolerates this nonsense! I don't need my brothers to deal with such fool, I will personally deal with him! Na the idiot go come family meeting!

Society has a hand in this. Most people are lured into marriage even when they know they are not compatible from the start. They always want to try it out because society mounts so much pressure on them to get married. I am glad this did not lead to death of one of the parties. The issue of domestic violence is becoming too rampant. Sometime in the past,a female banker was allegedly killed by her husband and so many more. I think we must begin to discuss these issues and find solutions before it becomes worse. The church, society, advocacy groups and the government need to do something about this ugly trend.

I don't care who is at fault, even if the wife is 100 percent as fault, the man is still an animal. A savage who deserves jail term. That's how some people will be justifying abusers under that lame 'there are always two sides to the story' crap! Tufia!

Another alternative is this if she wants her own pound of flesh, She should forgive and accept the husband back.. Then after the healing let her lace his dinner with overdose of sleeping pill while the husband will be enjoying his long sleep or unconsciousness, She should tie him up and use brand new razor blade and slash his ear exactly the same way he did hers, after that then she can take off with her baby in Usain Bolt and Okagbere style combined and then call a doctor to go patch him up 

Shikena. 
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Andy has this to say

70% of these women bashing this man on social media are very bitter because they no see husband marry and thats why they are so mad.. The rest may even do worse than this man considering they venom they spit on people like me with contrary but sound opinions. I enjoy it when people hurl stones on me for revealing hidden truth and telling it

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