Women often find it difficult to remain feminine, especially if they
assume leadership positions. Some of them have already understood that
they’re strong enough to surmount life barriers and achieve desirable
goals. Unfortunately, such women usually sacrifice the most valuable
things they have in order to be powerful and successful. They know that
they have no right to relax and show weakness, because one mistake can
cost them everything.
I’m not a careerist by nature and I don’t agree with the fact that
every woman should have a will of steel like Margaret Thatcher had. I
think that there’s no place for emotionality, tenderness, sensitiveness,
kindness and gentleness in the hearts of iron ladies. Feminine
qualities are an essential part of women’s nature.
Femininity is both the key and the weapon that can help every lady
enchant the man of her dream. Men enchanted by delicate and feminine
women are often ready to move the mountains for the sake of their love
and happiness.
Women who can create beauty and comfortable home atmosphere, will
always be surrounded by highly successful and manly men. Although
feminine traits should be instilled in girls from their earliest
childhood, if you’re already a grown-up, you still have a chance to
reeducate yourself and develop these feminine characteristics in a quite
short period of time.
1. Give preference to women’s style
I’ve noticed that modern women love to wear men’s clothes. They
usually do it for various purposes. Someone find a masculine fashion
comfortable, while others feel 100 times more confident when wearing
men’s clothes or have to stick to certain dress codes. Women who prefer
to wear jeans, shirts, T-shirts, and sneakers look fashionable,
beautiful and stylish, but not feminine.
Over the years these women have got used to men’s style and gradually
lose the sense of femininity. They start wearing their hair short and
forget about jewelry or other things that make them feminine and help
them look bright against the cold surroundings. It’s okay to try
something new and experiment with fashion, but it’s crucially important
not to cross the line, because unusual styles can have a big influence
on both men’s and women’s minds.
2. Develop a feminine voice
No matter how you slice it, the voice of a woman is an incredibly
important thing that can either enhance her feminine allure or alienate
people. Modern men set high standards of excellence for themselves and
others, especially when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex.
They find women with high-pitched female voices more attractive.
If for one or other reason you don’t have the voice of an angel, you
shouldn’t fall into despondency about it. First of all, record your
voice for you to hear it as other people hear and analyze what kind of
voice you have. If you have a lower-pitched, creaky and rude voice,
consider using different feminine voice techniques to develop a female
voice.
But the pitch of the voice isn’t the only thing you should focus on.
Develop a feminine enunciation, expand your vocabulary and improve your
grammar. As soon as you reach all these goals, you’ll be able to win the
hearts of men with the help of one or two phrases.
3. Pay attention to your thoughts and feelings
It’s hard to change something in life, if there’s a complete
disharmony in your inner world. Many ladies cannot reach a new level of
femininity, because they’re the victims of deep-seated feelings and
emotions. Psychologists state that hatred, resentment, negativity, envy
and obsessive thoughts can lead to different somatic disorders and steal
femininity. All unexpressed emotions usually cause increased muscle
tension, spasms and have a negative effect on women’s emotional state.
As a result, women find it difficult to maintain femininity and
correct posture due to muscle stiffness. This stiffness gradually
replaces their graceful and beautiful movements by awkward ones.I don’t
want to frighten you. I just want you to realize that it’s necessary to
solve inner conflicts and achieve a peace of mind, before you make
femininity, success and charisma your aims.
4. Communicate with women more often
Today many women, especially tomboys, don’t communicate well, because
they wholeheartedly believe that female friendship doesn’t exist. In my
opinion, this choice isn’t rational, because it limits their
opportunities.
If you have no desire to make friends, you can just keep in touch
with other ladies. Take a look around and you’ll see that this world is
full of wise, prosperous, truly feminine and kind-hearted women. Active
communication with such personalities will increase your feminine energy
and help you become more successful in everything you do. Only women
can understand all your feelings and emotional experiences without
words, because there’s a strong emotional connection between you and
them.
I’m also the one who don’t believe in pure and sincere female
friendship, but I don’t refuse to communicate with women. To me, my mom
and granny have always been my role models. They passed on their
experiences to me and taught me to act like a real lady regardless of
everything. Even today, I still ask my dear women for a valuable advice
and learn new lessons from them.
5. Don’t take too much on your shoulders
Those women who think that they can do everything themselves are
often successful, but unhappy, because they gradually turn into gerbils
on a wheel. They don’t realize that their excessive independence and
pride steal their spiritual energy.
Sometimes it’s okay to pretend that you’re a cute, womanlike, fragile
creature and ask men for help. Gallant and manly men will be even glad
to give a helping hand to a beautiful lady. Plus, you’ll be able to
dedicate enough time to your appearance, self-development and keep up
energetic practices.
Real woman should have a clear idea of her calling and know how to
set priorities. Those who can’t imagine their lives without children,
shouldn’t combine career and family life. It’s better to choose and
prioritize one thing and do it perfectly than make an attempt to kill
two birds with one stone and lose everything.
6. Try to be a many-sided personality
Attractive, interesting and womanly ladies are always open to change
and believe that their abilities are limitless. Every woman is
beautiful, unique and many-sided like a diamond. If you want to attract
manly men and become more feminine, you should be ready to act like an
actress, mom, wife, daughter or sister in various life situations and
develop the skill of redirecting attention from one thing to another.
This skill will give you an opportunity to forget about your problems
and make you smile, as if everything is wonderful, even if it’s not.
Manly men adore positive ladies who can control their emotions and
remain feminine, no matter what happens in their lives. Such women are
doomed to happiness, because their femininity boosts the self-esteem of
their men.
7. Keep your house and mind clean
Your house isn’t just a building or a place you’re living in, but a
strong energy center. There’s a powerful energetic connection between
you and your home. You’ll never reach a desirable level of femininity,
if your home is messy and uncomfortable, because you’re a woman and
guardian of the hearth. It’s not necessary to spend twenty four hours a
day cleaning the house, but cleanliness and coziness are women’s moral
obligations.
Besides taking care of cleanliness in your home, it’s strongly
recommended to purify your body and mind as well. But how can you do it?
The easiest way to clear your mind of negative thoughts and refresh
your energy is take a contrast shower or a bath with sea salt. Water is a
perfect remedy that can quickly wash away negative energy.
If you’re a tomboy, you shouldn’t give up on yourself. Femininity is a
set of behaviors, manners, attitudes and views peculiar to real women.
It means that every woman has a chance to activate and boost her
feminine energy. Do you agree that femininity can change your life for
the better? What way do you increase your femininity? We’d like to know
your point of view.
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