All girls like to discuss their secrets and crushes with each other,
since childhood. But once the teen times go away and everyone
experiences those first “I love you” and “We need to break up,” life
changes a lot and it’s better to keep your tongue between your teeth.
Of course, you have truly reliable friends who you trust, but don’t
share your relationship details with them. You probably know that
gossips can ruin any long-term relationship. You don’t have to be one of
those ladies who neglect their friends for the sake of love, though.
Just make a rule to avoid talking about guys when you hang out with your
girls to save your relationship and friendships at the same time. Treat
your friends and your boyfriend equally whatever you do together.
1. Let’s go on a date, my girls can wait
If you treat friendship like this, it`s actually not approved. In
fact, you can meet your guy more frequently than your best friends. We
spend almost all the time with our boyfriends and since all those “grown
up things” like work, own family and serious relationship appear in our
life, it becomes harder to pay enough attention to everyone who loves
us. Therefore, you should take a small break from dating and hang out
with your girls a bit.
2. Time flies so think twice
Now that the childhood is in your past, life becomes more and more
changeable. You get a job, visit different places, get acquainted with
interesting people, and grow as a person quickly. All these things are
worth talking about with your girls. See, time runs away from you and
talking about guys only isn`t everything you can do with your girls.
3. Your phone isn’t your interlocutor
Even the most wonderful conversation can be destroyed by a ringtone
of your phone. If you respect yourself and those people you call
friends, do everyone a favor and switch off the phone while you`re
hanging out with girls. You don’t see your friends each day so there`s
no place for long conversations with someone you see every single day,
right?
4. What’s at home should stay at home
The man you love gradually becomes a part of your daily grind. He`s
not as annoying and boring as an office paper work, for instance, and he
really brings most of positive emotions in your life but he becomes,
more or less, usual. Now, why do you want to hang out with girls? I
guess, not because you want to talk about something ordinary. That`s why
you should better leave your guy and problems at home, and talk about
something more interesting instead.
5. Sharing grief will make you a thief
When you hang out with girls, you all want to relax, have fun and
boost each other`s moods, right? Do you really think that they want to
discuss your relationship`s issues? Realize that those rare occasions
when you can enjoy a friendly group of people who`re close to you,
deserve more positive topics to be talked about. Furthermore, everyone
has almost the same problems with guys and talking about them won`t make
your day or night exciting or relaxing. Sharing grief will make you a
thief who steals your friends` time.
6. Serious problem requires a serious approach
You may feel really terrible after an intensive fight with your
boyfriend. You probably want to share your feelings with your friends,
but are you sure they will help you to solve your relationship problem?
When a couple faces a problem, they are the only ones who are able to
fix it. After all, you never know how girls treat your guy indeed so
there`s no need to share your boyfriend drama with them.
7. Learn more about the one you already know
Your besties seem to be those very people you know everything about
because you`ve already covered a lot of ground. You`re practically cut
from the same cloth and you probably remember those times when all of
you played with dolls and watched cartoons together. However, people
change with time and you are no exception. Same goes to your friends.
Sometimes life brings completely unexpected changes and you never know
which turn is right and which one is wrong. There may be something you`d
be amazed to hear from your friends so better ask them about their
lives and tell about the changes in your own person but not about your
relationship only.
Even though, having a strong relationship with a real man is a part of
woman`s happiness, it also brings lots of difficult moments. Most girls
call each other as soon as they have a fight with their soul mate to
spill out all negativity. It`s partially okay, but when you plan to
spend a night with friends, it shouldn`t be a night of the problems you
had with men last week. You meet your ladies to exchange fresh emotions
you get when life shows its all power, and to inspire each other. Talk
about art, cinema, travel, literature, music, hobbies, interests,
whatever. This list is endless but there`re no men in it. Don`t waste
your time discussing the relationships’ issues. Do you think talking
about guys when hanging out with girls is a good thing?
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7 Reasons to Forget about Guys When Hanging Out with Girls
Description : All girls like to discuss their secrets and crushes with each other, since childhood. But once the teen times go away and everyone expe...
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